Going to work and having to deal with a boss that you don’t like can be enough to make you want to go to the nearest bar and drink yourself into oblivion.  Not only do you have to deal with this person every day but you also have to follow their orders with no questions asked.  

When it comes to keeping your job, unfortunately you have to bite your tongue and take it.  Your boss may not be your friend but they are still your superior and you are expected to do your job regardless of whether they are nice or not.  

Surviving having to work every day with a boss you don’t like is as simple as knowing a few basic tricks.  Here are the best ways to deal with a boss that drives you nuts.

Don’t Take It Personally

The first thing that you have to remember is that your boss is not being horrible to you because of you.  Chances are if someone is being horrible to you they are likely this way with most people in life.  Therefore, you need to take an enlightened approach with dealing with this person and consider that it has nothing to do with you, but in fact everything to do with them.

If you are showing up every day and doing the best that you can then there is nothing you need to doubt about yourself.  There are sour people in this world, period.  The only thing you can do is be the best version of yourself and let everyone else be them.

Stay Quiet

Even though you may have the urge to shout profanities at this person from the largest mountain you have to learn to keep your mouth shut.  Don’t see it as being weak but instead being strategic.  

You’ll never keep your job or ascend in the company if you go around giving a piece of your mind to everyone that displeases you.  

A professional and wise approach is to keep your mouth shut and stay quiet even at the most difficult of moments.

Release Your Frustration In Other Ways

If keeping your mouth shut all day starts to take its toll on you then you should start to look for ways to release your tension.  At the end of a day when you go home and feel tense and unhappy try to find some form of self expression which can help you get rid of these unpleasant feelings.

Ideas can be going for a run, hanging out with a friend, or doing something which allows you release your expression creatively like painting or singing at the top of your lungs.

 

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Hi Im Eddie. Ive been working in finance for most of my life so I thought I would start to show some or my learnings. Hope you find it useful. I have dogs too and cats. When Im not feed them Im running.

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